Depression and illness Sun Yat-sen female professor jumped off the building and committed suicide
Yang Jing is a very cheerful person. As a professor, she has money, a house, and a car. She is tall and has a good face.
In the eyes of her neighbor, she is a strong woman and a successful person.
Unexpectedly, however, Yang Jing actually chose the suicide of jumping off a building.
After Yang Jing’s colleague Professor Liu knew the news, he sighed “unbelievably”.
Professor Liu said that Yang Jing’s academic research results are quite fruitful, and he is a master’s tutor for business management majors, and he has more graduate students.
In addition, she works part-time in several companies.
“She’s so good, why should she choose to commit suicide?
“” One third of the causes of her suicide were due to her personality, one third was due to work pressure, and the other one was due to marital irregularities.
“Yang Jing’s suicide surprised her colleagues and students during her lifetime, and some people speculated why she was dead.
The lower believe that “depression” is the culprit who killed Yang Jing.
Experts remind that successful middle-aged female white-collar workers are prone to psychological crisis and depression.
Understanding and concern from relatives is the most direct and effective way to save patients with depression.
Tear the Besieged City and leave the sad place Yang Jing was born in Changsha, Hunan in November 1962.
After graduating from Xiangtan University in 1983, she was admitted to the graduate school of Beijing Economics University.
Three years later, 24-year-old Li Jing obtained an economics expert and was assigned to a famous military academy in Changsha.
”Yang Jing is very strong in learning, but love starts late.
“Ms. Li told reporters,” She only fell in love after working at the age of 24.
It turned out that Yang Jing, who had an outstanding appearance and specialty, had just arrived at the unit, which caused the pursuit of Lin Qi (pseudonym), a young teacher at the same school.
In 1989, Yang Jing and Lynch got married.
”Soon after the marriage, Yang Jing became a lecturer.
After two years, she gave birth to a big fat boy and soon moved to a house of more than 100 square meters.
“In the eyes of Ms. Li, Yang Jing has a happy and happy home.” Both of them are university teachers, and her husband has knowledge and culture.
However, Yang Jing once revealed to me that she had the idea of divorce, and she said that life was delicious (Changsha dialect: meaning boring).
Ms. Li said that at the time, Yang Jing hoped that life would be more romantic, but Lin Qi devoted herself to learning.
Yang Jing often coquettishly with Lin Qi, hoping that her husband would give her a small gift or a bouquet of flowers on her wedding anniversary and birthday. However, her husband always poured cold water.
“This makes Yang Jing, who values spiritual life, very upset and increasingly depressed.
In 1994, Yang Jing met Xu Feng (a pseudonym) who worked in a government department while teaching outside, and the relationship between them quickly heated up.
Soon after, Xu Feng drove Yang Jing’s family to Shaoshan for a tour. He guided the tour guide and driver.
However, careful Lynch felt the ambiguity between this “driver” and his wife.
In October 1995, Lynch divorced Yang Jing and took away his son.
At this time, Xu Feng also severed his connection with Yang Jing because he had remarried with his ex-wife.
”Yang Jing was sad for a long time, and people soon lost weight.
Ms. Li was very distressed by Yang Jing. She thought, “You can’t blame Yang Jing for divorce.
She and her husband are under a lot of work pressure, but the two have little communication. It is rare to say a few words a week, which is also an important reason.
In July 1996, the sad Yang Jing decided to leave Changsha, and she soon received a letter of consultation from Guangdong University of Technology.
Depression became disease and overdraft life work came to Guangzhou to work, the teacher of Guangdong University of Technology knew that Yang Jing was still single and scrambled to introduce her.
However, Yang Jing has been evading. She once told Liu Ming (a pseudonym), a suitor who is a leader in a unit in Guangdong, that she has a fear of marriage.
“She said that I like to be with you, but since you said you would marry me, I started to be afraid.”I was hurt so deeply that there was nothing to join, and I would rather go alone.
Liu Ming told reporters.
Since then, Yang Jing has always avoided Liu Ming, and this love relationship ended without a problem.
Yang Jing, who lost confidence in love, devoted herself to work and career.
In 1999, at the age of 37, she was ranked as a professor and was the youngest professor of Guangdong University of Technology at that time.
In 2002, Yang Jing was transferred to the School of Management of Sun Yat-sen University as a prominent talent.
In order to do this better, she stays up late in the office and works overnight.
Overworked work seriously overwhelmed Yang Jing’s body and efficiency.
On New Year’s Day in 2007, the college organized teachers to visit Huizhou.
Along the way, Yang Jing leaned against the seat of the car, her eyes closed, and she said nothing.
The colleague felt something wrong and pushed her quickly.
”She opened her eyes, looked very scary, and said something like,” I’m not alive, I’m dead “.
The leader hurriedly sent her to Guangzhou Psychiatric Hospital for hospitalization, but her tutorial task was very heavy and she returned to work within a week.
“A female teacher at the School of Management of Sun Yat-sen University told reporters.
On January 19, the afternoon before the accident, a teaching seminar was held at the School of Management of Sun Yat-sen University. Yang Jing attended the meeting and it happened without exception.
At the dinner with the teachers in the evening, Yang Jing didn’t stay and hurried home.
At 4 am on January 20, Yang Jing leapt from her home on the 5th floor and ended her life by suicide, leaving her loved ones with eternal pain and nostalgia.
Teachers and students mourn the absence of depression in heaven After Yang Jing died, the students she taught before came to her parents’ home in Changsha to visit and condolences.
In their eyes, Teacher Yang is a good teacher who takes good care of students.
A student’s eyes circled red and said, “She was as beautiful and pure as in the photo.
I did not expect that she would live so painfully later!
“He also told reporters that his family was relatively poor, and Yang Jing used to invite him to dinner often.” I hope she can sleep peacefully in heaven, and hope that there is no depression in heaven.
“Many teachers and students have posted online to sacrifice Yang Jing.
One student said: “Mr. Yang’s lectures to the MBA were very exciting, and we really enjoyed listening to her lectures, because she would have many cases when she was in the classroom, and she would pick them up.
Once she took time off to see a doctor, we only knew she had a psychological problem. At that time, we all hoped that she could recover and live happily.
But she never expected that she would follow this path.
“If she can give her a little tolerance and sympathy, she may not take this step,” said Yang Jing, a relative who asked not to be named, to repeat this sentence to the reporter. “Yang Jing’s mother cried and saidThere is the next life, and such an excellent and sensible daughter, she must protect and take good care of her so as not to make her so tired.
“Yang Jing can be said to have died of depression.
For a long time, she has overdrawn her life, treating her work as chronic suicide.
Wang Wang, a male teacher in the School of Management of Sun Yat-Sen University, often encountered Yang Jing staying up all night to work overtime. He analyzed, “One of the reasons for her suicide was due to her personality. One third was due to work pressure.It is the impact of marital irregularities.
“Wang told reporters,” Yang Jing was admitted to the school’s doctorate in management in 2004.
In the next two to three years, she had to teach undergraduate students, MBA students and graduate students. She also had to do a doctoral dissertation, and was conducting a Ph.D.
He also revealed that shortly after being transferred to Sun Yat-sen University, Yang Jing was once trapped by a depression and even entered Fangcun Psychiatric Hospital for treatment several times, but later it seemed that his condition had improved a lot.
Reform, Yang Jing still insisted on teaching, research and other work without rest.
According to him, “When the college organized a teacher to visit Huizhou, Yang Jing got sick because he didn’t take antidepressant medicine.”
Experts comment on vigilant depression “killer” more than half of depression patients have suicidal thoughts, 15%?
20% end their lives with suicide.
“On March 5, 2007, Zhang Qi, chief counselor of the Hunan Psychological Counseling Center, said in an interview with reporters.
Zhang Qi believes that the biggest regret of Yang Jing’s suicide incident is that “to the extent that she is about to commit suicide, it should be the accumulation of long-term psychological pressure.
However, including college teachers and doctoral supervisors around her, none of her morbidities were found, which shows that everyone lacks awareness and common sense of mental health.
“” Psychologists have discovered that the psychological crisis of middle-aged white-collar workers is by no means uncommon.
Some accomplished people often have higher and more complete standards of themselves than the average person, while they are in a fiercely competitive environment.
当她们一旦遇到某种挫折，就意味着对自己那种‘高标准、严要求‘目标的否定，而此时所处的高位，又使她们往往难以找到可以倾诉和求援的知心朋友，使Obvious emotions are difficult to resolve, so middle-aged female white-collar workers who have achieved career success are more prone to psychological crisis.
“Zhang Qi told reporters,” Prevention is the most important thing, don’t think that the pressure is over.
If you accumulate more stress, you will have depression, so you must talk, be good at releasing, and good at transferring stress.
“Zhang Qi said that research shows that during the journey of life, some people will suffer from depression at least once, but most of the people who suffer from depression” are not aware of the disease “, only 25% of patients know.
“People with depression need to understand and listen. When people don’t have a way to talk, stress can crush them.
Therefore, Zhang Qi repeatedly emphasized that listening is the most direct and effective way to care for loved ones.